Amateur psycho-analysis on 4 yr olds doesn't work!
Does that count that you broke a promise you didn't make? Of course it does!
Alice's friend didn't get a hug on Friday (see "You can hug my dad on Friday"). It wasn't my fault - but I don't think that will stand up in child court guv...
This was complicated by the fact that a different friend of Alice gave me a hug the week after whilst I was saying goodbye to Alice. Freaked-out! What if the first friend saw that?
I had this foreboding that once either Alice, friend or both remember this then one of several things will happen.
- They'll laugh it off and say I'm "snurrig i huvudet" ("messed-up in the head"),
- They'll think I'm mean, or
- Things move on and it's not relevant anymore.
Well, for a combination of reasons I didn't see the first friend for most of the following week - bad timing and chickenpox (see later post). By then, I was obviously the only one remembering this....
All this analysis... I felt bad because the friend's dad wasn't around - he was "away with the elephants" - hence the reason for wanting the hug.
Conclusion: Don't over-analyse - at this age it's nearly always option (1) or (3)!
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